Ministry Coach Handbook

Coaching is more than a skill set—it’s a calling.
The Ministry Coach Handbook equips everyday Christians to walk alongside others with wisdom, discernment, and grace. Rooted in Scripture and shaped by the Ministry Sciences framework, this handbook shows you how to coach people toward growth in Christ without trying to “fix” or control them.

Designed for volunteer, part-time, and vocational leaders, it offers a clear path into Christ-centered coaching—whether you’re meeting in a church office, a coffee shop, or online. With practical tools, real-life examples, and an Ethics Covenant you can actually live by, this handbook helps you coach with both competence and character.

Inside this handbook you’ll discover:

• The biblical foundations of ministry coaching as a form of servant leadership

• The difference between non-directive, semi-directive, and directive coaching—and when to use each

• The Ministry Coaching Ethics Covenant, including a Rule of Integrity through the Seven Connections of Love

• Soul Discernment Exercises to help you listen deeply, ask better questions, and recognize the Holy Spirit’s leading

• Practical session tools: how to begin well, stay present, set action steps, and follow up

• Guidance on boundaries, confidentiality, referrals, and working alongside pastors and churches

• Encouragement for coaching in diverse contexts: small groups, discipleship, chaplaincy, outreach, and online ministry

Whether you are just beginning as a ministry coach or looking to strengthen your existing practice, The Ministry Coach Handbook will help you listen more deeply, discern more wisely, and coach more like Jesus—with integrity, humility, and love.